This is a very in depth question. I don't like it and disapprove of the fetishizing of the gay Black male. It's bad enough there's little to no representation within the porn industry.
About a week before I was asked this question, I went on to Grindr, started a new profile and named it "BBC4U". The profile had no picture and a barebones bio. Once I completed and went into genpop I was bombarded with "hey", "Looking?", and unsolicited dick/ass pics. I was completely taken aback by the amount of response compared to my original, which was completed with five pictures and a full bio. From there, I learned that black men in the area where only viewed as "big black cocks"and the worst part is they are ok with this arrangement.
It sickens me to know this. And after 24 hours of using the fake profile I learned all I needed. This started out as a social experiment to see why blank profiles were the norm within the gay community. Honestly, I don't know or have any real answers on the situation. I know that as a Black gay man, I am happy, proud, out and open. It's very demoralizing to have men only contact me in the hopes of just getting a piece of my dick. But what do I know?
I've heard the term within the porn industry A LOT! It's very distracting/insulting to have a director/cameraman tell me "Yeah! And now tease him with your BBC!" The hardest part of that scenario is do I call the person out for the blatant insult? Or do I just let it slide and understand that is how they "prefer" to direct.
I've heard the term within the porn industry A LOT! It's very distracting/insulting to have a director/cameraman tell me "Yeah! And now tease him with your BBC!" The hardest part of that scenario is do I call the person out for the blatant insult? Or do I just let it slide and understand that is how they "prefer" to direct.